Tuesday, October 9, 2007

Words words words

This is great! Please EVERYONE let me know what books you loved, as a child/youth, that informed your understanding of sex and gender. Was anyone else out there a Marion Zimmer Bradley fan? Those books gave me a LOT to process.

7 comments:

Katey said...

Books that formed my opinion on sex... I honestly can't think of any. Maybe that's why it took me so long to come up with reasonable expectations and confidence regarding the act. As for gender, what I really think about is the Madeline L'Engle books-- she had such great female heroines, and they really influenced my sense of "girls are awesome and can do things that boys do, and better!" The girl in a Wrinkle in Team is rescuing her dad-- how cool is that?

Liz T. said...

Of course! Madeline L'Engle is a great one, though I never made much headway on the third book in the series.

Jess said...

Lynn Reid Bank's "The Fairy Rebel." Anyone?

New York City Diary said...

Hey, judy blume got me through 5th and 6th grade, what can I say?
"Are you there God, It's Me, Margaret" (getting her period)
"Nothing's Fair in 5th Grade" (being fat when you're little)
"6th Grade Can Really Kill You"
"Then Again, Maybe I Won't" (masturbation)

And of course, sex and love erupted in: "Forever."

This was the first book I read about what sex might be like for a teen-ager, physically and emotionally. It transcended deep when I was 12.

Kim said...

"How to Fight a Girl" (by the author of "How to Eat Fried Worms")

Katey said...

To datingdiarynyc, I thought it was only Deenie that dealt with masturbation? I'm not sure that I've read "Then Again," though, so I could be wrong. But for Ms. Blume, a shout-out to "Starring Sally J. Friedman As Herself," which isn't about sex or love, but is an awesome girl character.

Anonymous said...

@katey

then again actually has a MALE protagonist, so it's different masturbation than in deenie. also i totally did NOT realize that deenie's "special place" was THAT special place for a really long time after i first read the book. so i guess that one didn't do too much to form my opinion about sex, huh?